Thursday, March 17, 2011
GET TESTED!!!
Make sure you guys get tested REGULARLY! To stop the spread of STD's!! It's the only way we can help control it! Your Friend, Kelly
Transsexual - What is it??????
Dictionary Description -
1. One who wishes to be considered by society as a member of the opposite sex, because they have the external genitalia and secondary sexual characteristics of one sex, but their personal identification and psychosocial configuration is that of the opposite sex.
2. One who has undergone a sex change
And so on and so forth it keeps going and going...
My description: Now remember this is an opinion, and as an opinion it can be discounted by others as they so wish to do. It doesn't mean it will change my opinion. I think every transsexual will have a different take on what a transsexual is and that's fine. I don't feel like any of us can explain exactly how it feels or what it is to be a TRANSSEXUAL. Or even UNDERSTAND WHY...it just IS!
A transsexual to me is someone that feels that their body does not match their soul! Someone who internally feels inside they are of the opposite sex and take the steps to fix it. I call the others scared to become their NEEDED gender to be happy. I don't consider everyone a transsexual, until they start living it! Living the life and fantasizing about the life are two entirely different things. And until you walk in the shoes darling..you have no right to call yourself a TRANSSEXUAL...Some may find that cruel, but it's real talk from me to you :)
Being a transsexual we are very taboo still, and many do not understand us. Our community faces much social degradation and misunderstanding. Not only from the straight community, but also from the gay community. I want to tell you though their opinions do not matter! Your opinion matters! Remember your haters can only make you stronger!
Haters are going to hate! People hate what they can't understand or perhaps they feel attracted to or feel like. People in general fall into two categories either they like it or hate it! There is no use killing yourself to try to make everyone like you! Just be you and the real people that matter will fall in line!!
What do most people think of transsexuals? They think we are ill, gross, perverted, prostitutes, gay, sex objects, fantasies (like unicorns), funny, drag queens, entertainers, outrageous, BEAUTICIANS/Make-up artists to help others less fortunate, and the list goes on and on!
So lets go through a list of stuff people say or do when they come into contact with a transsexual..Calpernia Addams the beacon to Transgender rights did a funny youtube video about this..What not to say/ask a Transsexual....I think she basically summed it all up!! I couldn't really add anything more to this...so watch these videos :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOjeZnjKlp0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLbf37pb1U0&feature=relmfu
Your Friend, KELLY xoxoxoxo
By the way I'm still waiting to go to the gym GEEZE
1. One who wishes to be considered by society as a member of the opposite sex, because they have the external genitalia and secondary sexual characteristics of one sex, but their personal identification and psychosocial configuration is that of the opposite sex.
2. One who has undergone a sex change
And so on and so forth it keeps going and going...
My description: Now remember this is an opinion, and as an opinion it can be discounted by others as they so wish to do. It doesn't mean it will change my opinion. I think every transsexual will have a different take on what a transsexual is and that's fine. I don't feel like any of us can explain exactly how it feels or what it is to be a TRANSSEXUAL. Or even UNDERSTAND WHY...it just IS!
A transsexual to me is someone that feels that their body does not match their soul! Someone who internally feels inside they are of the opposite sex and take the steps to fix it. I call the others scared to become their NEEDED gender to be happy. I don't consider everyone a transsexual, until they start living it! Living the life and fantasizing about the life are two entirely different things. And until you walk in the shoes darling..you have no right to call yourself a TRANSSEXUAL...Some may find that cruel, but it's real talk from me to you :)
Being a transsexual we are very taboo still, and many do not understand us. Our community faces much social degradation and misunderstanding. Not only from the straight community, but also from the gay community. I want to tell you though their opinions do not matter! Your opinion matters! Remember your haters can only make you stronger!
Haters are going to hate! People hate what they can't understand or perhaps they feel attracted to or feel like. People in general fall into two categories either they like it or hate it! There is no use killing yourself to try to make everyone like you! Just be you and the real people that matter will fall in line!!
What do most people think of transsexuals? They think we are ill, gross, perverted, prostitutes, gay, sex objects, fantasies (like unicorns), funny, drag queens, entertainers, outrageous, BEAUTICIANS/Make-up artists to help others less fortunate, and the list goes on and on!
So lets go through a list of stuff people say or do when they come into contact with a transsexual..Calpernia Addams the beacon to Transgender rights did a funny youtube video about this..What not to say/ask a Transsexual....I think she basically summed it all up!! I couldn't really add anything more to this...so watch these videos :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOjeZnjKlp0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLbf37pb1U0&feature=relmfu
Your Friend, KELLY xoxoxoxo
By the way I'm still waiting to go to the gym GEEZE
Health Kick!
Hey guys, so I am on a new health kick. I am 28 now getting closer to the 30 mark! On April 19th, I turn 29 WOWEEEEE!! Time flys by!!!!!!!!!! Anyhoo I decided if I want to maintain my body and my looks I better start eating healthy, taking vitamins, and working out.
I have never really worked out a day in my life...I don't consider gym class in school "WORKING OUT"....and when I danced and did tumbling that was a passion for me and I never felt like I was working out.
When I go to the gym with my husband I look at all these people that look like they are on hamster wheels ie the treadmill! I stick to dancing in the studio, the ball (for abs), and the stair machine for my legs and ass. However in my opinion my dance routine keeps me sweating and working the hardest. I am going to make it a priority to at least work out 3 times a week..FRIENDS you will have to help me with this! My husband works out 4 to 5 times a week, and he is good at kicking my butt in line. Maybe you guys want to start working out too? We can help each other! hee hee for us junk food/couch potatoes!! Trust me I can EAT...I may not look like it, but I pack it away! I've always said I'm a fat girl trapped in a skinny girls body!
I have changed a lot of my diet too! I mean I didn't go nazi on my diet, but I did change it! Eating more raw vegetables and fruit, less sugars, less can items, and more salads and chicken. Before I was eating a lot of unhealthy fatty meals!! I also am cutting pop out of my diet to only once a day or when I need an extra KICK of energy, until I finish off the pack I have in the fridge I had already bought...then it will be only on special occasions when we go out to a dinner possibly. I usually order Arnold Palmers though or some foo foo drink lol
With the changing of my diet I have also decided to enhance myself with vitamins! Which it's great for every trans-female to do if they are taking hormones. In general though a lot of the food we eat wont give us the vitamin intake we really need, so taking vitamins will ensure we do! I will give you a list of what I take and was told to take by my old hormone doctor - Dr. Odea. I know I have mentioned his name plenty in my other blogs and on Secret Kelly Radio! I love this guy! If I was still going to California regularly I would still be using him!
I just bought a bunch of new vitamins last night at Walgreen's for all this it came to about $40.00 and it was buy one get one free how cool is that! By the way I LOVE WALGREEN'S...it's one of my favorite stores!
Now I will tell what I take and what each one does :)
Vitamins:
Collagen - take one capsule in the morning and one capsule in the evening daily with 10oz of water, preferably on an empty stomach or immediately before meal. This will help with your skin, hair, nails, anti-aging, and produce a very soft look for you.
Fish oil 1200 mg - Take one capsule in the morning and one capsule in the evening daily with 10oz of water, preferably on an empty stomach or immediately before meal. Omega-3 fatty acids will help support a healthy heart. Omega-3 fatty acids also help maintain triglyceride levels already in the normal range. It can prevent aging, cancer, depression, bi-polar syndrome and chrone's disease.
Calcium 1200 mg - Take one capsule in the morning and one capsule in the evening daily with 10oz of water, preferably on an empty stomach or immediately before meal. I think you know this is for your bone health! You don't want a hunch back when you are older do you?
Cranberry Vitamin - Take one capsule in the morning and one capsule in the evening daily with 10oz of water, preferably on an empty stomach or immediately before meal. This is for your cholesterol and helps keep infections and illnesses away. It purifies and lines your urine stream to keep you healthy! The hormones raise your cholesterol we want to keep it down!
St. John's Wort Vitamin - Take one capsule in the morning and one capsule in the evening daily with 10oz of water, preferably on an empty stomach or immediately before meal. Unless you feel drowsy take it only at night. This will help anxiety and depression. This will help prevent the mood swings and keep you sane and happy. It will promote a positive ATTITUDE!!
Vitamin D - Take one capsule in the morning and one capsule in the evening daily with 10oz of water, preferably on an empty stomach or immediately before meal. This will help keep your immune system regular, keep your brain and blood flow working well, and maintaining a healthy body weight.
OOPS I NEED TO ADD THAT I AM ALSO TAKING THE B12 VITAMIN - ONE IN THE MORNING AND ONE IN THE EVENING FOR BETTER BRAIN FUNCTION AND ENERGY...MY HORMONES AT TIMES MAKE ME SO TIRED! THIS IS SO MUCH BETTER THAN ANY ENERGY DRINK AND LETS NOT FORGET HEALTHIER! THOSE ENERGY DRINKS ARE NOT GOOD FOR YOU...GATORADE AND VITAMIN WATER AREN'T EITHER IT'S BASICALLY KOOLAIDE ie SUGAR WATER!
OKAY GOT TO SCOOTALADOO - EAT THEN GYM :) I'M GONNA WORK OUT HARD TODAY!
LOVE YOU GUYS!! Your friend, KELLY :) (Have a Happy St. Patty's Day - If your not wearing green..I'll be PINCHING!!!)
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
I have a DARE for you!
This is the look of happiness even though my body feels more like "Sleepless in Seattle"...except that I'm no where near Seattle! ha ha ha
My random thoughts on tv right now: since I've watched more tv lately, than I think I have in years...I am now fully caught up on "reality-ness"...and man, I have to say...tv seems to like to enjoy showing how awful, rude, and mean people can be...
it's almost like the worse people are the more popular the show is! This is so sad...and makes me feel awful seeing people being so mean and rude.
There should be a channel that shows fun, positive, nice people...that can still be cool and hip and stylish, but just nice and kind to other people...something that makes you feel better after you've watched it! I MEAN GEEZE! Come on HOLLYWOOD!!
Here's some wise words everyone should have taped on their mirror (ha ha ha):
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
Imagine how great our days would be if everyone we talked to said kind, inspiring things....and didn't say anything rude, sarcastic, or mean!?!
This is a dare...or rather this is our mission, if you choose to accept it:
Today (go crazy..make it everyday)...stop yourself when you start to say anything that isn't positive, kind, or anything slightly gossip-y....
and only say things that have a positive spin, are kind, happy and encouraging.....
watch how YOU will not only feel happier...but so will everyone that is around you!
they will leave happier for having talked to you!
so let's get out there...especially all of YOU, because I'm not really leaving my house much with webcamming and having a family...ha ha ha...and spread some kindess...and extra "thank you so much" or "have an awesome day!"....or real compliment to brighten someone's day up!
You guys are wonderful and remember the happiness in your heart is like a flower with seeds that are waiting to be thrown all around...to grow more happiness in other people's hearts!
Go our there gorgeous and shine that beauty that's inside....your friend, Kelly!
Really a new IPHONE 5 already??
(see...here I am with an iphone 3 still...I haven't even had the chance to get a new iPhone4 and I been way cellularly outdated! ha ha)
I feel like the keep that can't keep up with the "coolness"...
it's like just when you buy wide leg pants...skinny jeans are in...
you buy all skinny jeans and and guess what....jeans up to your neck, are COOL now!
Man, and I just thinking about getting an iphone 4....my hubby just got one cause his iPhone 3 was stolen and I don't really notice that big of difference between the two BUT
now rumors of the iphone 5 are out!
YES THE iphone 5 is gonna blow old iphone 3 & 4 right out of it's shiny, "shatter-able" case!
why the iphone 5 (rumored to be out in June) will practically shoot fireworks out it's top:
- Dual Core Processor- making it work at ridiculous speeds
- It will have 5 billion megapixels..ha ha..ok not 5 billion but it will have better camera and video features
- It will run on a 4G network..making 3G look like "3's not company...because 4's a party!"
- Expected to have Face Recognition Security so unless someone has an exact model of your face no one's gettin' into your phone!
- Video Chat on a 4G network instead of a "snoozy" 3G network
- Thinner and better design
- Shatter Resistant and Scratch Resistant Screen- now we're talking! (really did it need to be glass on the front and back of the 4G...well it was a good way to increase protective case sales!) ha ha
- The lowest model will have 32 G of space!
- Longer Battery Life - Up to 14 Hours of Talk Time On The 3G and 7 Hours on the 4G.(I could just live stream face-time more than half my day away!)
- HD Audio -even the sound will be sweeter to your ears!
- Built In GPS -Now you'll never be able to use the "i got lost excuse"...ha ha ha
Why this makes me sad:
*I haven't even got the 4G iphone!
*Now I have to wait till the 5G iPhone comes out! ha ha
*Once again, if I relied on material things to be cool....I'd still be the kid eating lunch by herself in the cafeteria.
AND A NEW IPAD 2... I don't even have an ipad 1!
On this one...I can't even begin to keep up, when I don't even have an ipad to update!
RUMORS of the ipad 2:
from this picture it's supposed to show the microphone on the back as well as the ipad 2 on there!
It's "rumored" to have 2 cameras...one on the screen for face-time video chats...and one for taking pics
ohh la la...they sent the old ipad on a diet..and the new ipad 2 is now half it's size! ha ha
Maybe I'll do that to lose my baby weight, introducing Kandee 5, 4 times the baby, 5 times the weight loss! ha ha ha
The new ipad will also come with a SMGPS- Soul Mate GPS...so you can see exactly where your soulmate is to track them down! ha ha ha (just kidding, I just made that part up!)
Good thing I don't rely on having the latest and greatest to be the coolest...I like being outdated and slow...ha ha ha....I'll be like a cool vintage car with big fins in a world full of Prius's...
pink cadillacs and brick phones....
your friend Kelly!
Monday, February 21, 2011
Dedicated to so many Chicago girls!
If you ever been to Chicago almost every girl that go to clubs in Chicago claim to be some kind of model...it's quite hilarious..this describes them perfectly..hilariously funny song!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yL_FMpE4zeU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yL_FMpE4zeU
Monday, January 10, 2011
How To Deal With Rude People!!
I think everyone at some point in their day or week, comes across the path of at least one person who is rude to you.
I encountered a few people in my life that were extra-rude! I first thought, maybe they are just having a bad day, maybe they can't help that they lack people skills and kindness. Then as I continued to speak to rude person #1, I realized, "I think they are just rude!" Then I came across rude person #2, and again I was amazed at their rudeness! How can these people go though life mowing people over with their horrible attitudes and words?
This is what I've realized when I "get" to come in contact with these "rude-y's"...
#1. Don't let them effect you with their rudeness ~ I try to never react with what I feel like dishing out to them...that would make me just as awful as them.
To the rude lady at the cupcake shop who rudely tried to make me feel like an idiot..to which I could have rudely replied, "You are one of the rudest business people I've ever dealt with...I could go on twitter/youtube/facebook and have thousands of people hear about how stinkin' rude you are and that NO ONE should ever buy your stupid cupcakes. You have the worst people skills and HOW DARE YOU SPEAK TO anyone, let alone a potential customer that way you depressing little woman! I don't want anyone to ever have to deal with you or your pretentious little cupcake bakery!" BUT I DIDN'T SAY ANY OF THAT! (i just had to think of all the awful things I COULD have said, but I don't even naturally think like that! ha ha ha)
Instead I said, "OK, sounds like this won't work out. Maybe I'll try back when you have all your ordering figured out. Have a great day, bye!"
#2. Never let these rudey ones put a damper on your happiness ~ Don't let them steal your happiness, that only lets them win with the "power of their rudeness"! The best revenge is being extra happy and not-effected!
#3. Overpower the rudeness ~ that saying kill em' with kindness is my favorite way of dealing with rude people. Nothing makes a "rudey" feel worse than when you are nice to them...it takes the angry wind, right out of their sails!
#4. People that are rude have no clue what graciousness is ~ Graciousness is marked by kindness, sympathy, and unaffected politeness (according to the dictionary) and rude people are the complete opposite - Ungraciousness is an offensive lack of good manners. We want nothing to do with that.
#5. Feel sorry for rude people ~ Yes, that's right, feel sorry for them, this is a horrible "disease of rudeness" that they have. I bet they have misery and anger in their lives at every turn. That's why it spills out of them like an overflowing bathtub...you get filled up on what's in the inside and it spills out.
#6. Spill some kindess ~ just like the "rudey's" are full of anger and misery (their bathtubs are overflowing)......make sure you fill yourself with kindness, so that kindness spills out on everyone that comes in your path, from a waitress to your grandma, to a stranger that you hold the door open for, or let go in front of you in line when you see they only have a few items and you have a whole cart full.
Rudeness only has an effect if we let it. Are there rude people in the world? Yes. Are they almost everywhere we go? Yes. Do we have to be victim to their rudeness? NO! We can choose to put up our mirror of "rude-reflection"...not only will it bounce back the rudeness that they just spit out at us...so that our kindness will show them how "rude-iculous" they were, but also, that we WILL NOT LET IT EFFECT US or our DAY! And even if they still keep on keepin' on with their rude ways.....we can rejoice that we are not like that, and get away from them as fast as we can!
May you be a light of sparkling kindness wherever you go today...leave a path of people who feel better for having come into your presence. A big smile, a nice "thanks you so much!", and a kind, "have a great day!"...can totally bring a smile to someone's day.
A compliment, a kind smile, and something nice or encouraging...will always make someone's day better!
Let's be a huge revolution of "happy-day-maker's" where ever we go today...and every day!
typed with love from someone who battled a few "rudeys" all day...and not a one of them won! ha ha ha
huge love and super big smile...Your Kelly!
I encountered a few people in my life that were extra-rude! I first thought, maybe they are just having a bad day, maybe they can't help that they lack people skills and kindness. Then as I continued to speak to rude person #1, I realized, "I think they are just rude!" Then I came across rude person #2, and again I was amazed at their rudeness! How can these people go though life mowing people over with their horrible attitudes and words?
This is what I've realized when I "get" to come in contact with these "rude-y's"...
#1. Don't let them effect you with their rudeness ~ I try to never react with what I feel like dishing out to them...that would make me just as awful as them.
To the rude lady at the cupcake shop who rudely tried to make me feel like an idiot..to which I could have rudely replied, "You are one of the rudest business people I've ever dealt with...I could go on twitter/youtube/facebook and have thousands of people hear about how stinkin' rude you are and that NO ONE should ever buy your stupid cupcakes. You have the worst people skills and HOW DARE YOU SPEAK TO anyone, let alone a potential customer that way you depressing little woman! I don't want anyone to ever have to deal with you or your pretentious little cupcake bakery!" BUT I DIDN'T SAY ANY OF THAT! (i just had to think of all the awful things I COULD have said, but I don't even naturally think like that! ha ha ha)
Instead I said, "OK, sounds like this won't work out. Maybe I'll try back when you have all your ordering figured out. Have a great day, bye!"
#2. Never let these rudey ones put a damper on your happiness ~ Don't let them steal your happiness, that only lets them win with the "power of their rudeness"! The best revenge is being extra happy and not-effected!
#3. Overpower the rudeness ~ that saying kill em' with kindness is my favorite way of dealing with rude people. Nothing makes a "rudey" feel worse than when you are nice to them...it takes the angry wind, right out of their sails!
#4. People that are rude have no clue what graciousness is ~ Graciousness is marked by kindness, sympathy, and unaffected politeness (according to the dictionary) and rude people are the complete opposite - Ungraciousness is an offensive lack of good manners. We want nothing to do with that.
#5. Feel sorry for rude people ~ Yes, that's right, feel sorry for them, this is a horrible "disease of rudeness" that they have. I bet they have misery and anger in their lives at every turn. That's why it spills out of them like an overflowing bathtub...you get filled up on what's in the inside and it spills out.
#6. Spill some kindess ~ just like the "rudey's" are full of anger and misery (their bathtubs are overflowing)......make sure you fill yourself with kindness, so that kindness spills out on everyone that comes in your path, from a waitress to your grandma, to a stranger that you hold the door open for, or let go in front of you in line when you see they only have a few items and you have a whole cart full.
Rudeness only has an effect if we let it. Are there rude people in the world? Yes. Are they almost everywhere we go? Yes. Do we have to be victim to their rudeness? NO! We can choose to put up our mirror of "rude-reflection"...not only will it bounce back the rudeness that they just spit out at us...so that our kindness will show them how "rude-iculous" they were, but also, that we WILL NOT LET IT EFFECT US or our DAY! And even if they still keep on keepin' on with their rude ways.....we can rejoice that we are not like that, and get away from them as fast as we can!
May you be a light of sparkling kindness wherever you go today...leave a path of people who feel better for having come into your presence. A big smile, a nice "thanks you so much!", and a kind, "have a great day!"...can totally bring a smile to someone's day.
A compliment, a kind smile, and something nice or encouraging...will always make someone's day better!
Let's be a huge revolution of "happy-day-maker's" where ever we go today...and every day!
typed with love from someone who battled a few "rudeys" all day...and not a one of them won! ha ha ha
huge love and super big smile...Your Kelly!
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